So, I'm not sure how to really report this- terrible round.

[Grayshift]

Bringing up discussion of this sort of thing should never be discouraged. It does sound like this time is was mostly innocuous but I can definitely respect the player's right to opt out of that sort of thing.

But we really, really don't want people afraid to ask 'is this okay' on questionable stuff. That leads to actual awfulness being allowed to continue.