certain tools shouldn't work on harm

[RSOD]

Agree and we do it on some items but there's so many.
It would be nice if Help was universally non-combat and Harm was, to actually use the intent system.

indeed, sometimes the intent system feels underused with a bunch of features, like the "hitting doors" problem i mentioned earlier. 
i'm worried it'd take a loong time to fix and/or polish the intent interaction system, given how many items and cases for each are in place, but i'm no dev, so this is just a mildly educated guess