Goonhub
04-14-2014, 03:53 PM
Bit of background:
Was playing spacemans earlier today and was talking with some people. One of them (uses random names and dunno their key) misgendered me on accident, so I corrected him on that. So, they decided to continue calling me "he" even after I explained that, as a transwoman, that shit isn't cool with me. I had also called them out for using "cunt" earlier, so I'm thinking that's why. Anyways, I adminhelp about it, end up getting into a bit of an argument with SAOrangeSoda and GorillaMyDreams, I was getting pretty angry and was in the wrong so I got slapped with an hourban to cool off. This report isn't about either of them, just including that so I'm not leaving stuff out. After the hourban expires, I play another round, and then start another. I spawn as a geneticist, and apparently the other geneticist is the same dude from earlier and continues to misgender me. So, I fire off an adminhelp explaining the situation
Was playing spacemans earlier today and was talking with some people. One of them (uses random names and dunno their key) misgendered me on accident, so I corrected him on that. So, they decided to continue calling me "he" even after I explained that, as a transwoman, that shit isn't cool with me. I had also called them out for using "cunt" earlier, so I'm thinking that's why. Anyways, I adminhelp about it, end up getting into a bit of an argument with SAOrangeSoda and GorillaMyDreams, I was getting pretty angry and was in the wrong so I got slapped with an hourban to cool off. This report isn't about either of them, just including that so I'm not leaving stuff out. After the hourban expires, I play another round, and then start another. I spawn as a geneticist, and apparently the other geneticist is the same dude from earlier and continues to misgender me. So, I fire off an adminhelp explaining the situation
Quote:HELP: You: hey, there was this dude from a couple rounds back who continued to refer to me as a dude even after i told him i was a transwoman and he's still doing it (alexander bratton)No response and he continues to do it, so I send another (maybe bad to do?)
Quote:HELP: You: alexander bratton keeps referring to me as a dude after i explained to him i'm a transwoman, and he's hella obviously doing it on purposeand for the crime of wanting someone to stop their anti-trans* bigotry, I get gibbed and then an admin PM:
Quote:Admin PM from-drsingh: there, now you'll have no future problems w/ being referred toI take issue with this because somebody harassing me across 2 rounds and specifically using my gender identity as a target lead to me getting gibbed because I complained about it. That seems like bigotry to me, and I don't think getting gibbed for complaining about bigotry is very fair. I have no idea if action was taken against the dude intentionally misgendering me.