Complaint Ban for complaining? Guess we as players aren't allowed to talk?

[AggressiveBeans]

I was warned for misgendering people during a heated conflict in rp, in which I immediately changed it and called them their names instead until I knew their gender. When I tried to disagree with it, I was banned for 30 minutes and the reason was  "that isn't an invitation to complain" for responding with my explanation and how I don't believe it's fair to get a warning for that for already fixing it. 
Apparently on this server we have no rights to speak? Yall really think it's okay to ban people for replying to an accusation? Seriously sad and clearly yall don't care about what we think. 
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