Remove "gay" from VOX vocab

[TheNewTeddy]

If we are going to remove references to aspie because a very very small number of people think it's offensive (and a larger number of people think that if anyone is offended we should remove it) then we should remove gay from vox as well, as it could also be offensive.

We can't remove one not offensive term that people claim is offensive and keep another not offensive term that people claim is offensive.