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I would like to talk about Rule 4, specifically concerning the use of language and the distinctions made within the rule. To start off, I would like to say that I appreciate the efforts the admins put into maintaining a respectful and inclusive environment, and my goal here is to seek clarification and understanding. This is a serious thread about the terms "penis" and "dick."
This is what rule 4 states:
Bigotry and sexual content is a non-negotiable hard 'no'. If you are unsure what sexual content includes: do not refer to sex acts, genitalia, or anything sexual in nature. This includes erotic roleplay, which encompasses all situations which are erotic or suggestive in nature (e.g. 'spooning', making out, etc.), and not only those which are sexually explicit. Rape 'jokes' are considered sexual content. There is absolutely no reason whatsoever to use the word 'rape' in this game. Yes, you can call people dicks and insult them with terms that are used normally, but don't use bigoted language or slurs. Common examples of bigoted language include calling people 'retards', 'cunts' or 'traps', using 'gay' in a derogatory manner, or using gendered slurs like "pussy" and "bitch." If an admin tells you to knock something off because it breaks the no bigotry or sexual content rule, that is not an invitation for debate. Knock it off or go elsewhere. Bigoted language (for example, slurs) is also not allowed in your BYOND key, character name, flavor text, or anything else with which you interact with the server, whether as a joke, or masked with misspellings or spoonerisms. This rule also extends to cover bigotry and discrimination based around a player's in-game race, species, or gender identity.
1. Clarification on "Dick" vs. "Penis":
* The rule allows the term "dicks" but prohibits terms like "cunts" and "bitches", and other sexual content referring language. Could someone provide me more context on why "dicks" is considered acceptable while similar terms are not? Perhaps this could help with easier understanding of different situations that can occur within this context that's not acceptable.
2. Consistency in Language Rules:
* The rule states that calling someone "dick" is acceptable because it is a common way to insult someone in a conversation, but references to "penis" are not allowed, both are words can be used in sexual contexts, and both can be considered sexual words. Could someone here provide more context on why "dick" is considered acceptable while "penis" is not? Understanding the rationale could help.
3. Justification for Language Use:
* The explanation is that calling someone a "dick" is normal, but calling someone a "bitch" isn't because it can be interpreted as bigotry. In my opinion there is a clash between these two concepts. How do admins ensure consistency in enforcing these language rules, especially given the nuanced differences in terminology.
4. Cultural Sensitivity:
* There are other words or terms that are also considered common insults and therefore should be allowed, and if so, could we have a clearer examples or a list to avoid confusion? However, would it be beneficial to have more detailed examples or a glossary of terms that are acceptable or unacceptable? I think it would help out players.
* Since without a doubt the player base consists of diverse backgrounds, are there plans to review and update these rules to reflect changes in social norms?
This is everything I wanted to say. Im looking forward to hearing any thoughts from both sides.
Thanks for reading. 
1. Clarification on "Dick" vs. "Penis":
* The rule allows the term "dicks" but prohibits terms like "cunts" and "bitches", and other sexual content referring language. Could someone provide me more context on why "dicks" is considered acceptable while similar terms are not? Perhaps this could help with easier understanding of different situations that can occur within this context that's not acceptable.
2. Consistency in Language Rules:
* The rule states that calling someone "dick" is acceptable because it is a common way to insult someone in a conversation, but references to "penis" are not allowed, both are words can be used in sexual contexts, and both can be considered sexual words. Could someone here provide more context on why "dick" is considered acceptable while "penis" is not? Understanding the rationale could help.
3. Justification for Language Use:
* The explanation is that calling someone a "dick" is normal, but calling someone a "bitch" isn't because it can be interpreted as bigotry. In my opinion there is a clash between these two concepts. How do admins ensure consistency in enforcing these language rules, especially given the nuanced differences in terminology.
4. Cultural Sensitivity:
* There are other words or terms that are also considered common insults and therefore should be allowed, and if so, could we have a clearer examples or a list to avoid confusion? However, would it be beneficial to have more detailed examples or a glossary of terms that are acceptable or unacceptable? I think it would help out players.
* Since without a doubt the player base consists of diverse backgrounds, are there plans to review and update these rules to reflect changes in social norms?
This is everything I wanted to say. Im looking forward to hearing any thoughts from both sides.
Thanks for reading.