08-25-2023, 09:11 AM
Responding to let you know the feedback was read and discussed.
My personal opinion is the situation wouldn't have occurred had the subject been dropped at the first request. I do understand that it doesn't feel great to have someone in a position of power tell you that, but it's a part of trying to moderate the chat and try to prevent heated discussions.
While I trust you had no bad intentions and there was a misunderstanding, it was an inherently sensitive subject about a controversial figure. Whether or not the two of you agreed wasn't the issue: it was continuing past the point and making an issue out of it. If they did what they did because they felt they needed to show strength in front of the community... Well, who put them in that position?
That said, we do appreciate you taking the time to make this post and do find it helpful.
My personal opinion is the situation wouldn't have occurred had the subject been dropped at the first request. I do understand that it doesn't feel great to have someone in a position of power tell you that, but it's a part of trying to moderate the chat and try to prevent heated discussions.
Quote:Personally to me it felt as if they were feeling like I was questioning their authority and that was upsetting them so they had to keep on pushing back. I wasn't questioning anything. I was in fact agreeing with them about what they were saying previously but I believe adhara had already made up their mind and didn't want to "back down" or "show weakness" to someone they felt they were above.
While I trust you had no bad intentions and there was a misunderstanding, it was an inherently sensitive subject about a controversial figure. Whether or not the two of you agreed wasn't the issue: it was continuing past the point and making an issue out of it. If they did what they did because they felt they needed to show strength in front of the community... Well, who put them in that position?
That said, we do appreciate you taking the time to make this post and do find it helpful.