Sending things to a partner station through cargo.

[AlyasGrey]

What if the station it's sent to could view what is being sent and accept/deny it? It feels reasonable and would fix a lot of potential problems with both the crate and any item idea.

While I definitely agree that the receiving station should have the option to decline deliveries, in the interest of 'teh funneh', that should be turned off by default.  Need to include the option to just turn off any future deliveries too.  

Just limit deliveries to like once every three(five?) minutes and give both command and qm alerts that a delivery has been sent/received.  Command because it makes sense that any station-to-station transactions should be part of command's decision making process as they are using station resources they will not be easily able to get back.